In my latest 11-minute, unedited YouTube video, I took you on a literal and figurative walk through the origins of Grateful Truce—sharing my decision to serve the Lord through this work, the raw process behind the book, and my hard-won perspectives on recovery. Here’s what you will see:

Key Moments from the Video

🌱 The “Why” Behind the Book:

  • How a poster board of scribbled ideas (shown on camera!) evolved into a mission to help others negotiate their truce with alcohol.
  • My calling to serve through writing—not as a preacher or therapist, but as a fellow traveler offering tools, not rules.

🔄 My Take on AA & Rehab:

  • Respect for AA’s community support, but honest critique of its limitations (especially for those seeking moderation).
  • Rehab realities: Why institutional approaches often fail to address individual needs long-term.
  • Emphasis: This path isn’t for everyone—but if you’ve felt trapped between “all or nothing,” it might be for you.

📜 Credentials & Credibility:

  • 7+ years of sobriety battles, 100+ day sobriety streaks, and a Blue Belt in Jiu-Jitsu (proof I practice discipline!).
  • 41 years in retail, real estate, and bartending—giving me a street-level view of addiction’s grip.

🌿 A Glimpse of My Sanctuary:

  • As I walked, you saw my garden—a metaphor for growth, patience, and the daily work of nurturing what matters.

Why This Video Matters

This wasn’t a polished monologue. It was real talk:

  • No edits = No hiding. Just my unfiltered heart on the path I’m inviting you to walk.
  • Selfie-stick style = Intentional. Recovery isn’t about stages or spotlights—it’s one step, then another.

Watch the full video here:


Your Turn

  • For those questioning AA/rehab: Did my reflections resonate? Where do you disagree?
  • For writers: Ever turned a poster board of chaos into something meaningful? (Tell me how!)

“Commit your work to the Lord, and your plans will be established.” —Proverbs 16:3

P.S. The garden you saw? It’s proof that what we tend grows. Let’s tend your truce next.

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Find Peace in the Struggle. There is a Path Forward.

Are you a Christian who feels trapped, ashamed, or exhausted by your relationship with alcohol? You believe in grace, but you only feel guilt. You want freedom, but the paths of strict abstinence or uncontrollable drinking both seem like a lonely, uphill battle.

This is a place of hope, not of judgment. Welcome to Grateful Truce.

We are a dedicated Christian ministry that serves believers struggling with alcohol. Our mission is to offer a compassionate, biblically-grounded path to a sustainable peace—a “Truce.” We provide free, daily resources that focus on grace, community, moderation, and practical steps, helping you move from a cycle of shame to a life of purpose and freedom in Christ.

This ministry, and all we do here, is dedicated to serving Jesus Christ, whose power is made perfect in our struggles and whose grace meets us in our acceptance.

Take the First Step Toward Your Truce Today.
It’s free, it’s practical, and it’s delivered straight to you.

[ I NEED THIS HOPE. SEND ME THE FREE STARTER KIT ] (Coming Soon!)

(Your free kit includes: [“The ‘First Steps to a Truce Guide,” “3 Key Bible Verses for the Struggle,” “A Prayer to Start Your Day”])